Compare it to finding the perfect wedding ring💍. You don’t just walk into a store and grab the first one you see. You look around, look past, try different styles, until it feels right for you. Choosing your videographer is essentially the same – but instead of a ring, you choose someone who will be by your side all day. And there are no second chances. So how do you know if you’ve got a good one? Here are 8 things to look for:
1. They are curious about what you like
Before they start talking about prices or packages, they ask about the moments that are important to you. If you say you like spontaneous moments, this really needs to be probed. Just “spontaneous moments” is too vague. Too often couples are disappointed because the videographer didn’t go into enough depth. This needs to be clear so they can film with intention (there are simply too many things happening at a wedding for one person to capture it all).
2. They make you feel completely at ease
The atmosphere is important. You want to feel relaxed, natural and completely yourself. A good videographer doesn't make you act - they make you forget the camera is even there.
3. 💸 “If it seems too good to be true…”
You know the saying. And yes, it applies here too. While it’s wise to stay within your budget, remember: you only get one wedding video. Most experienced wedding videographers in the Netherlands charge between €2200 and €3000 for full day coverage. Worth every penny if it means you can look back on your video later with pleasure, like Boris & Esther did with this video.
4. Their work holds your attention🎞️
Look beyond their Instagram highlights – watch a full wedding video. Are you still watching at the end? Want to watch more? That’s a sign of strong storytelling. You want your video to feel like your day – not just show what happened.
5. They know what they are talking about
Ask how they handle audio. A pro will tell you about using multiple microphones and backup systems. Same goes for lighting, weather, or last-minute changes. You want someone who can handle anything. See my approach here.
6. They are invisible when needed – but provide clear guidance when needed🎬
Some of the most natural-looking moments are actually lightly staged. A skilled videographer knows when to back off and when to step in – so you always look your best without feeling posed.
7. They plan met je
Good videographers ask the right questions up front. They help you plan the timeline, know when the light is best and think about logistics. They don’t just improvise on the day itself – they are prepared. And you can tell.
8. They are genuinely passionate
You can tell when someone really loves their job. They light up when they talk about it. Not just the technical side, but the people, the emotions, the story. And that passion? You can see it in the end result.
Final thought:
This isn't just any video. Get it right the first time. So choose someone who gets you. Check out this video of Kelly & Iris who said:
"After our first meeting, we immediately had a good feeling about Tom. He’s a very enthusiastic, friendly man with a clear, beautiful vision. We weren’t really sure what to expect from our video, but it exceeded all our expectations. We both shed a few tears watching the very first version we received. We are truly thrilled with the final result."
