Best 9 Tips for Kids👶 on your Wedding Day
Adorable chaos or a smooth celebration? It’s all in the planning 😉
Having kids at your wedding can be so sweet 💕—but only if you plan a little ahead. With the right approach, they’ll feel included, entertained, and happy… and so will you. Here’s what I’d tell you if we were chatting over coffee:
1. Be intentional about the moments you want to share with your partner 👰🤵👶
For example, your first look. It’s such a special, emotional moment—you probably don’t want a toddler pulling on your dress or crying in the background. Decide whether that moment is about just the two of you, or if your little one should be part of it.
2. Think about other big moments too
Like walking down the aisle or entering the ceremony space. Some kids get shy or overwhelmed when all eyes are on them. Having a backup plan or an adult walking with them can save a lot of stress.
3. Consider the ceremony itself
Let’s be honest: ceremonies can be long and boring for kids. Maybe give them something small to do (like hand over a drawing), or let them join later when things are more relaxed.
4. Plan for entertainment
A craft table, bubbles, coloring books, or even a toy corner makes a huge difference. Keep their hands busy and you’ll hear a lot less “I’m bored!” (and way fewer tantrums).
5. Hire a trusted babysitter 👩🍼
Someone who knows how to handle kids kindly but firmly. They’ll step in when needed so you and your guests can just enjoy the moment without worry.
6. Expect the unexpected
Crying, tired kids, or just sensory overload—it’s all part of it. Set up a cozy spot for naps or chill time, and make sure someone’s there to take them when they need a break.
7. Choose the right part of the day 🕒
They don’t need to be there from start to finish. The reception tends to be more fun and relaxed—perfect for kids to run around, play, and be themselves without shushing every five seconds.
8. Give them a small job
Let them throw petals, carry a sign, hand over a gift or the rings (with help). It makes them feel important and adds some seriously cute moments to the day.
9. Be okay with it not going to plan 🙃
Sometimes they just don’t want to participate—even if you imagined it differently. That’s okay. If you stay flexible and open-minded, you’ll all enjoy it so much more.
