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Best 9 Tips for Kidsđ¶ on your Wedding Day
Kids at your wedding can be absolutely adorable â but only if you plan ahead a little. With the right approach, theyâll feel involved, entertained, and happy⊠BUT will you feel happy too? Hereâs my advice based on what Iâve seen at weddings.
1. Which moments do you want to share only with your partner?
For example, your âfirst lookâ. Itâs such a special, emotional moment â you probably donât want a toddler tugging at your dress or crying in the background. Decide whether that moment is just for the two of you, or if your little one should be included. Do this for the whole day. What about walking down the aisle? Some children get shy or overwhelmed when all eyes are on them. Having a plan B or an adult walking along can save a lot of stress.
2. The ceremony
For example, your âfirst lookâ. Itâs such a special, emotional moment â you probably donât want a toddler tugging at your dress or crying in the background. Decide whether that moment is just for the two of you, or if your little one should be included. Do this for the whole day. What about walking down the aisle? Some children get shy or overwhelmed when all eyes are on them. Having a plan B or an adult walking along can save a lot of stress.
3. Provide entertainment
A craft table, bubbles, coloring books, Lego, or even a play corner makes a huge difference. You know your kids best and what keeps them busy. Keep their hands occupied, and youâll hear a lot less âIâm bored!â
4. Hire a trusted babysitter
Someone who knows them and generally knows how to handle children is a must. She will step in when needed, so you and your guests can enjoy the moment without worries.
5. Expect the unexpected
Crying, tired kids or just feeling overstimulated â it all happens. Set up a cozy spot for naps or downtime, and make sure someone is ready to take them out if they need a break.
6. Choose the right part of the day
They donât need to be there from start to finish. The reception is usually more fun and relaxed â perfect for kids to run around, play, and just be themselves without being told to stay quiet every five seconds.
7. Give them a small task â Let them toss flower petals, carry a sign, hand over a gift or the rings (with some help), or even help decorate the table. It gives them a sense of importance and creates incredibly cute moments. The Perfect Wedding also has an extra tip for this.
8. Accept that things wonât always go as planned â Sometimes they just donât want to join in â even if you pictured it differently. And thatâs okay. If you stay flexible and open-minded, everyone will enjoy the day so much more.
Last words
Hopefully this clears things up. If you want to know more about how I deal with children on a wedding day, drop me a line.
Want to see a video with a child in it? Check out the video below:
