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8 Signs That Show You’ve Found a Great Wedding Videographer 🎥
It’s like finding the perfect wedding ring. You don’t just walk into a store and grab the first one you see. You look around, try different styles, and wait until it truly feels right. Choosing your videographer works the same way – but instead of a ring, you’re choosing someone who will be by your side all day. And there are no do-overs. So how do you know if you’ve found the right one? Here are 8 things to look out for:
1. They are curious about what you like
Before they start talking about prices or packages, they ask about the moments that matter most to you. If you say you love spontaneous moments, they should really dig deeper. Just “spontaneous moments” is too vague. Too often, couples end up disappointed because the videographer didn’t go deep enough. This needs to be clear so they can film with intention (there are simply too many things happening at once on a wedding day for one person to capture everything).
2. They make you feel completely at ease
The atmosphere is important. You want to feel relaxed, natural and completely yourself. A good videographer doesn't make you act - they make you forget the camera is even there.
3. “If it seems too good to be true…”
You know the saying. And yes, it applies here too. While it’s wise to stay within your budget, remember: you only get one wedding video. Most experienced wedding videographers in the Netherlands charge between €2200 and €3000 for full day coverage. Worth every penny if it means you can look back on your video later with pleasure, like Boris & Esther did with this video.
4. Their work holds your attention → Look beyond their Instagram highlights – watch a full wedding film. Are you still watching at the end? Do you want to see another one? That’s a sign of strong storytelling. You want your video to *feel* like your day – not just show what happened.
5. They know what they are talking about → Ask how they handle audio. A professional will tell you about using multiple microphones and backup systems. The same goes for lighting, weather, or last-minute changes. You want someone who’s prepared for anything. Here’s a look at how I work.
6. They’re invisible when needed – but give clear direction when it matters → Some of the most natural-looking moments are actually lightly directed. A skilled videographer knows when to step back and when to step in – making sure you always look your best without it ever feeling staged.
7. They plan with you
Good videographers ask the right questions up front. They help you plan the timeline, know when the light is best and think about logistics. They don’t just improvise on the day itself – they are prepared. And you can tell.
8. They are genuinely passionate
You can feel it when someone truly loves what they do. Their eyes light up when they talk about it – not just the technical side, but the people, the emotions, the story. And that passion? You’ll see it in the final film.
Last words
This isn’t just a video. Do it right the first time. Choose someone who truly understands you. Watch this video from Kelly & Iris, who said:
“After our first meeting, we immediately had a good feeling about Tom. He is a very enthusiastic, friendly man with a clear and beautiful vision… We both shed a tear when we saw the first version. We’re incredibly happy with the final result.”
